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Meet Vicky...

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Meet Vicky...

π•‚π•šπ•Ÿπ••π•π•ͺ π•–π•©π•‘π•π•’π•šπ•Ÿ π•ͺ𝕠𝕦𝕣 "𝕀π•₯𝕠𝕣π•ͺ" π•’π•Ÿπ•• π• π•Ÿπ•π•ͺ 𝕑𝕝𝕒𝕔𝕖 π•šπ•Ÿπ•—π• π•£π•žπ•’π•₯π•šπ• π•Ÿ 𝕙𝕖𝕣𝕖 π•₯𝕙𝕒π•₯ π•ͺ𝕠𝕦 𝕒𝕣𝕖 π•¨π•šπ•π•π•šπ•Ÿπ•˜ π•₯𝕠 𝕀𝕙𝕒𝕣𝕖.

Born two and a half months premature in 1950, my parents always told me I was a survivor and God had special plans for me. I have a beautiful family and some amazing friends. My first love is working with special needs adults and children and my second love is photography both of which I still do now.

Like us all, I've had my share of ups and downs but I wanted to share my story. In 11 short months, I was misdiagnosed not once but twice with 2 life threatening issues that could have ended my life. With both, I went to at least 3 different doctors and was told with both, "Nothing is wrong." No testing, no biopsies....nothing.

I did not feel right and kept pushing until I got my answers.

On November of 2010, I had my whole digestive system reconstructed and 11 months later in October of 2011 I received a diagnosis of cancer. I now bear the beautiful scars that remind me of my 10 year survivor celebration this October. If I didn't persist, I would not be here today. I AM A SURVIVOR; just like my mom and dad often told me!!!

If you’re in a situation you are not comfortable with, please keep going until you find an answer you are comfortable with. If I didn't, I would not be here today.

ℍ𝕠𝕨 π•π• π•Ÿπ•˜ π••π•šπ•• π•šπ•₯ π•₯π•’π•œπ•– π•ͺ𝕠𝕦 π•₯𝕠 𝕣𝕖𝕒𝕔𝕙 𝕒 π•™π•–π•’π•π•šπ•Ÿπ•˜ 𝕑𝕝𝕒𝕔𝕖?

I can honestly say that I don't think I will ever reach totally my healing place but I am peace with what I am feeling. Things will pop up or I hear a special song that reminds me but it's all ok. I lost my best friend to cancer in 1999. This devastated me, but I have a memorial garden in her memory on Center Street which Ed (my husband) and I take care of. I visit there often and place special things we liked there. I still experience pain from this loss but it's easier for me. Now I remember all the fun and crazy things we did together which comforts me.

As far as my medical issues, I am healed. Every day I wake up is a gift from God and I embrace it completely.

π•Žπ•™π•’π•₯ 𝕠𝕣 𝕨𝕙𝕠 𝕙𝕖𝕝𝕑𝕖𝕕 π•ͺ𝕠𝕦 𝕙𝕖𝕒𝕝 π•’π•π• π•Ÿπ•˜ π•₯𝕙𝕖 𝕨𝕒π•ͺ? π”Έπ•Ÿπ•• 𝕙𝕠𝕨?

The love and support I received from my family and close friends was amazing. Doing everything that I needed, including lending an ear just when I wanted to vent and sometimes just sitting quietly out back on our deck. We created many beautiful memories during this time.

π•Žπ•™π•’π•₯ π•šπ•€ π•₯𝕙𝕖 π•€π•šπ•Ÿπ•˜π•π•– π•žπ• π•€π•₯ π•šπ•žπ•‘π• π•£π•₯π•’π•Ÿπ•₯ π•π•–π•€π•€π• π•Ÿ π•ͺ𝕠𝕦 π•π•–π•’π•£π•Ÿπ•–π•• π•—π•£π• π•ž π•–π•©π•‘π•–π•£π•šπ•–π•Ÿπ•”π•šπ•Ÿπ•˜ π•₯π•™π•šπ•€ π•™π•’π•£π••π•€π•™π•šπ•‘?

Love Me. Embrace every moment of my life. Love not hate others. Spread kindness. Be proactive about ME, take care of ME. Listen to my body and what it is telling me.

π•Žπ•™π•’π•₯ π•šπ•€ π•₯𝕙𝕖 𝕓𝕖𝕀π•₯ 𝕨𝕒π•ͺ π•₯𝕠 𝕀𝕦𝕑𝕑𝕠𝕣π•₯ π•€π• π•žπ•–π• π•Ÿπ•– 𝕨𝕙𝕠 π•šπ•€ π•˜π• π•šπ•Ÿπ•˜ π•₯π•™π•£π• π•¦π•˜π•™ 𝕒 π•€π•šπ•žπ•šπ•π•’π•£ π•€π•šπ•₯𝕦𝕒π•₯π•šπ• π•Ÿ?

Just be there for them 24/7. Check in on a regular basis. Let them know they are loved.

π•Žπ•™π•’π•₯ π•šπ•€ π•€π• π•žπ•–π•₯π•™π•šπ•Ÿπ•˜ π•‘π• π•€π•šπ•₯π•šπ•§π•– π•₯𝕙𝕒π•₯ π•–π•žπ•–π•£π•˜π•–π•• 𝕒𝕀 𝕒 𝕣𝕖𝕀𝕦𝕝π•₯ 𝕠𝕗 π•ͺ𝕠𝕦𝕣 π•–π•©π•‘π•–π•£π•šπ•–π•Ÿπ•”π•–?

To be proactive about myself and make me the best I can be. Follow your instincts. If it doesn't feel right for you, it probably isn't!

HMUA: Kamerin Litten