Andrea Costrino & Co | Portrait Photography | Buffalo, NY

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Dear Andrea...

Dear adolescent Andrea,

I know you’re scared and most of the time you feel like you’re not enough.

Things don’t seem to come easily to you as it does for others.

I can see that you feel shame around not measuring up.

You’re sensitive and your feelings easily get hurt.

You fear this makes you look weak and an easy target.

You worry about people judging you or worse yet exposing you for all that you lack but here’s a truer version and what you have to look forward to….

You will find a passion in college that will create a deep spark in your ability to conquer your academic shortcomings. You will not just survive this challenge but you will thrive with honors.

You’re enough.

You will score the job of your dreams and foster a love for school and learning in the many children you teach.

You’re enough.

You will marry a man who adores you and together you will create a family of your own. Two creative, sweet, kind, and silly girls will call you mama. They will idolize and love you beyond measure.

You’re enough.

You will cultivate a marble jar group of friends who will honor and protect your sacred bond. They appreciate the most authentic version of you. You will be loved and safe with them.

You’re enough.

You will pivot and rediscover yourself over and over again. Even when you are scared, you’ll accept the changes and persevere.

You’re enough.

You will get knocked down more times than you can count but don’t worry, you never stay down long and rise stronger each time.

You’re enough.

You will continue to be a deep feeler but learn to accept it as a superpower and not a weakness. People need your empathy and compassion. People need your vulnerability.

You’re enough.

You’ll learn to tap in and trust yourself. Once you do unexpected doors will open for you. Continue following the path paved for you; you will help many people along the way.

You’re enough.

Life will continue to throw curve balls year after year. Challenges will always be apart of your journey.

Keep leaning on your faith and abundant mindset.

And never forget you are worthy of an exceptional life.

You have always been and will continue to be ENOUGH.

Andrea

A big thanks to everyone for their birthday wishes yesterday